In moments of stillness and solitude, we often find ourselves pondering life's bigger questions. Today, I've found myself reflecting on a series of profound coincidences and the lasting impact of the people I've met along the way, particularly through my work as an interviewer in the music industry for over 20 years.
Eight years ago today, Tim (Avicii) played his last show in Ushuaia, Ibiza, bidding farewell to his fans in a powerful, emotional moment. And now, eight years later, I lost my sister due to mental health struggles. As I reflect on all this, I can't help but think of Tim, who, despite his own battles, left an indelible mark on the world through his music. Even now, his songs reach millions, bringing comfort, joy, and a sense of connection to those who listen.
This has led me to reflect on my own life and the many remarkable people I've had the privilege to meet, like Tim. I've spoken with some of the most creative minds across the globe—people whose talents and insights have shaped my understanding of the world. These encounters were not something I sought out with great effort; rather, they seemed to happen naturally, as if our paths were meant to cross.
And so, I find myself asking: What is my role in all this? Why did I meet these people? What purpose do these interactions serve? What if I were to leave this earth today—what would it all mean? I don't have clear answers, but perhaps that's okay. Maybe the purpose of these moments isn't something that can be clearly defined. Maybe it's about the enrichment they bring to our lives, the way they shape our perspectives, and the way they allow us to connect on a deeper level with others, and ourselves.
It's easy to feel insignificant when comparing our lives to those who have left a visible impact on the world, like Tim or other great artists. But perhaps our purpose lies in the small, seemingly ordinary moments of connection—the conversations, the shared experiences, the simple exchange of energy that can happen when two people truly see each other. And as I think of my sister, any life deserves to be honored just as much as any artist's legacy.
Maybe my role has been to listen, to witness, and to hold space for these miraculous, beautiful minds to express themselves. Perhaps all those years of asking questions and listening to these people have prepared me for what I’m doing today—working with artists on an even more personal level. In this way, every conversation and encounter has been part of a larger journey, leading me to this moment. Maybe it all led to what I'm doing today. Maybe it's been about finding common ground in our shared humanity, about understanding that creativity, in all its forms, has the power to change the world.
Or maybe it's all been for nothing. I don't know. And that's okay. I am learning to be comfortable with not having all the answers. Maybe, in the end, it's less about why these moments happened and more about what we choose to make of them.
As I continue to reflect on my journey, I find solace in knowing that every encounter, every conversation, and every connection has added something to my life. And perhaps, in some small way, I have added something to theirs too.
For now, I'll embrace the uncertainty and trust that the answers will come in their own time. After all, life is a series of moments, and perhaps the meaning lies in how we choose to live them.